Rutgers Law Love Stories
Love is always in session at Rutgers Law. Celebrate the season with our heartwarming Valentine’s Day spotlight on two Rutgers Law alumni couples: Christopher and Danielle Shanahan (Class of 2016 in Camden) and Rajiv and Carrie Parikh (Class of 2005 in Newark). Their journeys from classmates to lifelong partners beautifully capture the spirit of connection that thrives in the Rutgers Law community. We also feature Rutgers Law Professor Amy Soled '90 who has been married to Rutgers Business Professor Jay Soled for 36 years and counting.
Christopher & Danielle Shanahan (CLAW 2016) - Click image below or click here to view
Rajiv and Carrie Parikh (NLAW 2005) - Click image below or click here to view
Jay Soled & Amy Soled '90
Jay and Amy Soled’s story began 36 years ago on a summer blind date. At the time, Jay was a law student at Michigan, and Amy was just beginning her journey at Rutgers Law School. Decades later, both have risen through the academic ranks: Jay is a Distinguished Professor at Rutgers Business School and Amy is a Clinical Professor of Law at Rutgers Law School.
Because they often teach night classes, the Soleds have turned Newark into their "date night" destination, frequently meeting for quick pre-class meals. Jay is known for periodically popping into Amy’s office with flowers or food. But not all of Jay’s gestures are traditionally romantic. A few years ago during a Valentine’s Day dinner, Jay went to pull something out of his briefcase. Amy thought it might be a little blue box but instead, Jay presented a 30-page manuscript on taxation and matrimonial law, inviting her to work with him and share a byline. While Amy laughs that it wasn't romantic at first, the couple now shares a published article.
After 36 years of marriage, their advice for maintaining a spark while working at the same university is rooted in fresh starts. "Think of every day as a first date," they suggest. "This way, you’re always on your best behavior."
Read more Rutgers faculty love stories in Rutgers Today: https://www.rutgers.edu/love-banks-rutgers-love-stories